- February 12th, 2014, 5:04 pm#476323"You've never been out of college. I've worked in the private sector, they expect results." Sorry, couldn't resist. Look, we don't know your situation. Living at home? Cardboard box in an alley? Trust fund? Don't know, doesn't matter. If it were me, that 3 years after college I only now had a temp job, I would have moved to find work. Again, don't know you or your situation, but that's what people do. No work? Move to where there is work. Just saying. That sucks you haven't been able to find work, I'm sorry. The economy is in the toilet and I forget that living in Canada, in an oil and gas province no less, work is easier to come by. But, if I were in a situation where I needed to make money to survive, I would do whatever it takes. Maybe this is something you need to put on the back burner until you do find a job. Life is tough, sometimes we don't get what we want and we have to sacrifice what we want for what we need and when situations change, then you get to do all the things you want to do.
You gotta do what you gotta do, in life I mean not just money for ghostbuster stuff. Clean toilets. Serve fast food. Clean houses. Collect bottles. Whatever. Are you going to complain about life or change it?
One piece of advice from one of my mentors. When he needed a job he went down to the train yard at shift change and asked the foreman if they needed any help. He did that every day until finally someone didn't show up and he got the job. Right place right time? No, persistence. Determination. When this man got hurt at work and then went back to school to get his degree, his wife went to work. Again, no jobs. What did she do? She went to Denny's at shift change and asked if they needed any help. She did this every day until finally someone didn't show up and she got the job. She worked there for a week, on tips only. She said she would work for tips only for a week and if she didn't work out they could fire her. This man and his wife are now multi multi millionaires, many homes, their biggest is over 20,000 square feet, jets, cars etc. That's not the point. We all have 24 hours in a day, why do some people get better results. Its not because they are lucky or they are born with it. They are willing to do what others are not to get the results others want but not willing to do the work for. You can't have an entitled attitude for life. You want something, get out there are work for it. (Not you specifically, I mean people in general.) People are lazy and it pisses me off.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but maybe no one has ever had this talk with you before.